What does it mean to live with meaning and purpose?

Meaning is deeply personal.
What something means to one person can feel completely different—even opposite—to someone else.

Most of us search for meaning as if it’s something outside of us—something we need to discover, earn, or eventually arrive at. We wait for the right role, the right relationship, the right moment. We assume that once we find it, life will finally feel meaningful.

But what if meaning was never the destination?

For a long time, I thought meaning and purpose were things I had to reach or achieve. As if one day I’d arrive at meaning by doing the right thing or finding the right path.

What I came to understand is that meaning isn’t something you arrive at later.
It’s what’s already driving you.

Meaning is the why behind your emotions, behaviors, and actions.
It’s the force shaping how you experience what happens to you.

Meaning is the drive, not the destination.

That’s why the same action can feel empty to one person and deeply meaningful to another—not because the action itself changed, but because the drive behind it did. Meaning isn’t universal. It’s personal. It reflects how you think, what matters to you, and what you believe.

Most of the time, we’re not aware of that drive. We’re simply being moved by it.

But the moment you pause and ask why—why you reacted the way you did, why something felt heavy or meaningful—you uncover the meaning that was driving you.

That meaning isn’t good or bad.
It’s information.

It shows you what mattered, what you needed, and where you’re growing.

And once you see the drive clearly, you have choice.

You can continue being driven by the same meaning—or you can choose a new one. When the drive changes, the experience going forward changes with it.

That’s where intention enters.

When an action is chosen with awareness—when there is thought, clarity, and purpose behind it—the action becomes meaningful. Not because it’s perfect, but because it’s intentional.

The same is true for purpose.

There isn’t one purpose we’re meant to uncover. Purpose lives in choosing our drive consciously—deciding what will move us forward in this moment, based on what we know and what’s being asked of us now.

A meaningful, purposeful life isn’t built by finding one grand answer.

It’s built by noticing what’s driving you—and choosing that drive on purpose.

That is what it means to live with meaning.
Not chasing it.
Not arriving at it.
But living from it.