when the why is clear, the how aligns
Life asks you questions - you create meaning through how you choose to respond
The Philosophy Behind Your Experience
Life is your greatest teacher. You just have to know how to listen.
You can have all the knowledge in the world, but what you experience is what you truly know.
Every experience - challenging and beautiful - holds wisdom. But most of us move through life too quickly to notice.
There's another way.
When you slow down just enough to pay attention to your experiences, you begin to uncover what’s actually true for you—what that experience meant to you, what it revealed, and what you want going forward.
From that place, choice becomes intentional.
You’re no longer just reacting.
You’re responding with awareness.
And from there, you can create new experiences—ones that move you in the direction you actually want to go.
Every experience is an opportunity to understand yourself better and live with deeper meaning and purpose.
My Mission
My mission is to support you in growing forward in a tangible, grounded way so you can do what you were put in this world to do: fulfill your purpose and bring your unique light into the world.
You hold so much meaning, and the world needs what only you can give.
I’m here to help you see yourself clearly, reflect with compassion, give you powerful insights and build intentional strategy —so you can rely on your own strengths, make aligned choices, and turn your dreams into reality in a way that aligns with your truth.
Why Your Experience Matters
Life isn’t random. It’s layered, meaningful, and full of moments that can guide you — if you learn how to listen.
Grounded in the principles of logotherapy, Your Experience is built on the belief that growth begins with awareness and expands through intention.
We believe…
Every experience holds meaning if you’re paying attention.
Growth comes from understanding what your challenges are showing you, not avoiding them or fixing them
Change happens through living it, not just learning it
Alignment and compassion with your true self is the foundation of lasting change.
There is no perfect path — only the one you shape with clarity and intention.
Who you are is unique, with your own strengths, personality, and purpose.
The goal isn’t healing - its evolution
Understanding the deeper why transforms how you move forward
Your daily choices create your life, one moment at a time.
At Your Experience, we combine mindset work, personal development, and embodied learning to help you move from challenge to growth, from confusion to clarity, and from simply surviving into a life that feels aligned and meaningful.
Founder of Your Experience
Hadassah Spilman
About Me & My Experience
Everything I share comes from lived experience — not just theory.
I've always believed that knowledge is power. My entire life has been about expanding myself with meaning, purpose, and growth, immersing myself in everything I could learn about human behavior, psychology, and what makes us thrive.
For over 20 years, I channeled this into building Exquisite, a successful clothing brand where I designed not just clothes, but a company culture around people's real needs. I mentored countless employees and created systems that helped people from all walks of life find clothes what worked for them, not just in how they looked, but in how they felt. While building my business, I was also navigating an 18-year co-dependent marriage, divorce, remarriage, and blending families.
But through all of this, the challenges, the success, the constant growth, I was carrying something heavy. I had always thought differently and seen deeper than conventional approaches, and instead of accepting that, I was stressing myself to change. Trying to fit. Trying to be understood.
Then I discovered logotherapy, and everything shifted. It wasn't just another modality to study; it transformed my entire being. I finally understood that I wasn’t meant to be like everyone else. My purpose wasn’t to change myself to fit others, but to follow my values and choose what I wanted around me. The weight of trying to change lifted, and I learned to accept who I am and evolve from there.
Unfortunately, when the partnership with my sister was no longer aligned, I faced one of the hardest decisions of my life. I sold the business I loved, fully set, successful, and a huge part of who I was. It broke my heart, but even in the pain, I saw a deeper meaning. I trusted it was Hashem telling me I was needed elsewhere. I still grieve it, and this experience continues to stretch me. Yet here I am, starting completely over, but with a clear purpose: to share everything I've learned, experienced, and continue to practice to help others navigate their own lives with meaning and clarity.
That transformation is why I care so much about this work. I'm passionate about helping people see their experiences as information, not judgment, and about shifting challenges from something to overcome to opportunities to grow from.
I've proven I can build. Now I help others build themselves, inspiring, supporting, and empowering you to grow forward.
WHERE YOU GO FROM HERE’
If you’re ready to move forward with clarity, let’s start with a conversation.
IS UP TO YOU’
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