I don’t just go through life. I grow through it.

Always evolving

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Founder of Your Experience

Hadassah Spilman

About Me & My Experience

Everything I share comes from lived experience, not just theory.

From a young age, I was taught that if I wanted something, it was my responsibility to create it. That belief gave me a deep sense of agency. I didn't wait for things to change. I looked for ways to improve them.

I constantly questioned what I didn't understand. I rarely accepted things at face value. If something wasn't working, I wanted to know why and figure out how to make it better.

I was always drawn to creating, not by starting from scratch, but by taking what already existed and improving it. I loved identifying what wasn't working, understanding the problem beneath the surface, and building thoughtful solutions.

At 18, I started a clothing brand to fill a need that existed at the time by creating stylish clothing that also met strict modesty standards.

Over the next 20 years, I grew that vision into three retail stores and a manufacturing facility.

But what I was really building extended far beyond clothing.

I was expanding myself and impacting others. I was developing people, creating culture, and

designing systems that allowed both individuals and the business to grow.

I hired people based on potential, often with little or no experience, and invested in helping them develop

the confidence, skills, mindset, and leadership needed to succeed. Many went on to build successful careers

and businesses of their own.

Along the way, every personal and professional challenge pushed me to keep growing.

I immersed myself in studying leadership, human behavior, emotional development, business strategy,

and personal growth, not simply to gain knowledge, but to apply what I learned to real life.

As I continued to develop myself, I began to notice something that changed everything.

The same situations I once experienced one way began to feel completely different. I noticed opportunities

I hadn't seen before. I understood people more deeply. I responded with greater intention. I made different

decisions.

It wasn't the situations that had changed.

It was the way I was experiencing them.

That realization transformed the way I approached leadership, relationships, problem solving,

and business.

I began to see that while we often focus on changing our circumstances, the greatest

transformation happens when we change the lens through which we experience them.

As my perspective expanded, so did my business.

I built stronger teams, healthier systems, better strategies, and a more intentional life, not because life became easier, but because I was seeing more and experiencing it differently.

As the years went on, I wanted to continue growing and expanding the business. My partner wanted something different. Neither vision was wrong, but we were no longer aligned in the future we wanted to create together.

I was left with a choice: sell the business I had built and loved, or remain in a business that no longer aligned with the direction I wanted to grow.

The decision was difficult, but it was clear. It required me to live the very principles I had spent years developing. Staying aligned with my values.

Today, Your Experience is the natural continuation of that journey.

I help leaders expand the way they see themselves, others, and the situations they face so they can make more intentional decisions, build stronger businesses, and create lives that are aligned with who they are.

Because when your lens expands, your experience changes.

And when your experience changes, so does everything you create.

My mission is to turn meaning into movement.

To uncover what’s keeping people stuck and what’s truly driving their choices,

then translate that into clear, intentional action

so they can create real momentum and lasting results in their life and business.

Through this, we build meaningful experiences, intentional products, and continued growth, creating something that matters. Not just for their business, but for the people they serve and the world they're contributing to.

What You Can Expect When Working With Me

LET’S TURN MEANING INTO MOVEMENT.

Are you ready to take action on what you know needs to change?